dat night was like dat peaceful//

Today is:

Saturday, August 27, 2005 @ 8/27/2005 11:40:00 PM

Well, firstly I started talking to my sis just only one week after our quarrel, really ONE week, where I told her that I wanna go to apply for job in SwissOtel Merchant Court. She then gave me something to keep in my wallet...like "fu"..some sort of Buddhists stuffs. hmm...talked a little bahx...den followed by a few days later alrite..but still today still not very close yet...hmm...i guess Im really petty this time...haha...can't believe I still can survive well...*hmmms!

My life wasn't so bad so far...i guess i don't really care what's going on much? hmms..what can i say now? just some thoughts about it...im kinda glad of the way i am leading my life now...just the starting of it i guess. oh well, Im taking up part-time job in HYATT hotel since I can't get from my the other classmate, so asked another classmate for help!! WOW!!woho! he really got me into banquet! wahaahaa!!! im was soooo excited about it! really really excited till everybody think I was mad! hahaha!!! but I had kept in mind the consequences already...so no matter what Im trying my very best to be self-disciplined and control my own life...hopefully I won't tired myself out. I really need some money now and Im having some sort of MENTALITY at this moment that had lead me to really bother to take it up, supporting myself and etc. This mentality really pushes me to do what I really want now. At the same time Im teaching myself some stuffs. Since I have come to realise something again. Therefore, I am ready to take up the challenge!! wahaha!!

For now, I may not be having a lot of time to blog already, unless if I really have the time and the mood. Well...first day of work was quite alright, serve drinks and clear dishes plus messes. Some more I hadn't any training in advanced. Right now still not very sure of the places there, like would get lost within the staff area itself! wahaha!! hmms...my arms are aching for the both sides now....so 'suan'...I can say that I was walking around non-stop to fill up drinks and attending to the guests. I don't know how many times I walked in and out of the kitchen to get stuffs and fill drinks for the guests. I was so busy till I never know what's really going on within the function except for the lucky draws stuffs. haha...Everybody was in haste...all were walking like gonna bang into each other, sometimes just collided, but luckily human's reflect was able to control it.haha...even me almost bang into people several time, but usually stop on time. well...yeah!!!hehe...for a first-timer me, I did it!!! and the leader praised me sia.. " very good ah."hehe...okie..enough of my experiences for the day. have to get back to work on wed and sun! yea. though a little blur, but will ask my friend to show me how to do things. okie well....so my next week schedule would be:

MON-Volleyball Training [home by 12am]
TUES- hopefully don't go out! cos no $ and want rest!
WED-WORK [6pm-11.30pm]
THURS-volleyball Training [home by 12am]
FRI-nil
SAT-nil
SUN-WORK [3pm-?]

hmm.....seems like I have 3 free days ah. what should I do with it? actually was hoping to work extra...haha...but well, the leader of the work place gave me this slot so i'll make a do with it bahx..may request next time.

im so tired right now....went to sentosa with rpvballers today. had a not-bad day bahx...

// the peaceful night sky

- leave me alone.. i want some peace.. -

Today is:

Saturday, August 20, 2005 @ 8/20/2005 06:42:00 PM

After 2 entries of my "happenings", I just don't know what to say now, maybe i have some reflections over it? Yes, as expected i didn't talk to her as I had told myself. I choose not to. I sounded so petty. But im like that when i intended to be. I guess everything between us are happening in the fit of anger. No matter what, THOSE WORDS were hurtful. They bear some meanings to a person like me, even if they were being said to others as well. She knew me well too, and of cos she would know my reactions towards these. She did say these kind of words before, and which was quite long time ago. I didn't take it so seriously, cos i forgot them and believed that they are words of anger only. But this time it was HARSHER than expected. It so harsh that I would never expect some one who loves me would say such a thing that would actually crush my self-esteem, putting me my in 'not-important' position. It was so harsh that I thought of ending my life. but i don't believe in ending my life for such silly stuffs.Things like that had happened many times and now i decided to explode? or did I really explode accidentally? well..i didn't mean to be petty over such a small matter like this, I would believe that a lot of people out there would not think that im a petty person cos i am always the calm one and who don't lose temper easily, but look at my SITUATIONS now, wherever i may be, i feel i have faced with new happenings, and the environments had somehow made me change and im changing according to them too. Problems of life surface in my life, which maybe one of the reasons why im 'rebounding' to such ridiculious or small matters. They enhanced another form of my reactions and perhaps i had kept my 'potential' energy for too long? That's one of my characteristics. I do explode, and when i did that, people can't accept the fact but got angrier over my reactions. Perhaps that is why. Can i ask myself why do i have such a characteristic? hmmms...maybe i can make some assumptions of myself....i can say that i called myself happy-go-lucky person because i lead everyday happy and cheerful despite some 'downs' of my life. I wear smiles wherever i go....i lead carefree life.....i am positive about many things. I once said i had changed due to the influences by certain things in life....I think im learning the wisedom of life when things befall me.(hahahahaha!!!wisedom?) People rarely see me get angry or being sad. I don't have many 'downs' of my life, and i must say that i am like that to some extent.....i have really quick mood swing....from sad to happy....cos i only think about how to play happily and don't think about other things....yea..the carefree me...but right now I've got certain points to note....err...i'm not sure how i managed to have quick mood swing...it was surprising to me as well that im such a fickle-minded person in terms of mood as well....haha...i guess i just choose to forget them by being happy? At least it helps to me....and i realised i really forget them for the period.....hmmms...i was ignorant. maybe till now i still have that characteristic, but i was forced to get involved in things or bother with things under circumstances. i guess too much of my ignorances and carefree lifestyle in the past really made me to reflect over when problems start to surface. It will shows how i handle them....i guess i wasn't be able to handle them well bcos the past ignorant me haven't really grow up and experience them myself except for hearing people's experiences, but it doesn't help much cos that didn't happen to me...only can learn to symphatise with these situations....and now i know why some people can handle their life better than others. it maybe due to the different sections and time of their lives whereby they are forced to learn their lessons too. Some people may learn it later in their life which will create hardship in them for them to handle at a stage. And maybe those who experienced them earlier may mature and handle them better. The kids who sail their life too smooth for too long will find themselves wondering why they are so weak in the future when they go to work. I wanna get out of that sailing smoothly pathway too, cos i know i will grow stronger if i experience these myself. Though i wasn't happy about why must these things happened to me and why must heaven be so cruel towards me, but i think i should sort out my thinking and take this as a learning lesson. Besides i'm having many lessons now.....the easy and hard ones. Therefore, i guess right now i know what to do.....intention of these are just my goals, but i have to struggle through first before i can tell myself that i had already actually achieved it....it's not easy to achieve things from hard processes.....Furthermore, this is a life processes. oh manz...what have i been saying all these whiles? do i make sense? I guess i have lots more to say but i forgot them...should bring them out again when another chapters of life learning process surface, but next time round i hope that i have already been rather strong enough to face them with the right attitudes.

I would like to thank those who have been giving me advices and had been listening to me while im really on the down side or in the mist of my shattering state. Though i know some of you may be there for me, but i haven't really tell you what exactly are all these about, i hope you understand that i dun mean to keep it from you too. I just need some time to space out my thoughts as well..xiao de, i know you cared, but i couldn't find you at that timely moment. and sihui, thanks for the constant care you showed, hope u are alrite too, you are a strong gal.

Thanks you guys for listening cos I believe that they helped me a lot. It really get things off my chest and it felt much lighter. How nice you guys understand my situations go for this period and help move on with life. Think about it, if i were the past me, keeping everything to myself, perhaps I would have gotten depression, added to my own negative thinking and weak mentality.haha!So thanks a million.

// the peaceful night sky

- leave me alone.. i want some peace.. -

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Wednesday, August 17, 2005 @ 8/17/2005 10:06:00 PM

:(( tearing :(( why?! why?! am such a detestful person? now she wants me to go away! away! away! yes...pack up and go!!! :(( is it because of my rebellious attitudes that I gave now? i just 'exploded' and threw tandrum, that's my characteristic. she told me to PACK UP and GO!! she told to go and DIE!! she told me to JUMP down the building and DIE!!! she said I WASTED her money. she told me to leave and never will she bother to look for me. it will no longer be a burden for her. she won't feel 'xi han' anymore. she told me to go, and she wouldn't CARE even if i dun complete my studies. does she bear to do that to me? why are your words so HURTING??? why?!?!? if i couldn't cry over these words, den probably im an unfeeling human....they really put SALT into my WOUND...and just like a knife being STABBED into my heart. oh...if u really want me to go, i'll go.......!!! but the thing is where do I go??? who should i go to? how do i support myself? i work??? GO WHERE?!?! BACK HOME to thailand mah?!?! now i just really feel like packing up and RUN AWAY from home. oh my goodness, what should i do now...im UTTERLY UPSET....I haven't been quarrelling with her for so long already. whenever she's angry with me, she would use these THREATENING and HURTFUL words on me. im TERRIBLY UPSET. Please help me!!!!`i made her angry bcos i 'exploded' over a small matter. im fed up by things she does to me. or am i being cursed? actually for today just over a small TV matter and because she asked me to watch the kids studying and made sure they are not playing while studying.... while i was watching TV, just to keep an eye on them. but my sudden tots pissed me off. because of the way she phrased it. she always shouted at me when the kids aren't doing their work. and this doesn't happen when i dun watch TV. This is like curse and fate. why must you do this to me when i can watch TV since i hardly can watch TV, and when i finally got to watch Tv, I felt so relax all over. but the thing is, when this moment comes, it's would be followed by her reminding me repeatedly and unhappy attitudes towards me to "see" the kids study. oh come on, this has been going on a couple of times already and i felt weird why it was so..that's why i tot it was fated to happen. and today im super angry on it as it happens again...*exploded me* i just screamed back in pissing attitude and 'bu shuang' attitude. wOw! i was so rebellious...and can't believe it...what has gone through my mind?....i don't look like my old self. i was very obedient and never argue back before..but as time goes by im starting to have my own say. suddenly i felt so much with confidence and strength to fight for my rights. whenever i fought for my reasons, THERE!!! im being shoot back with threatens like this " you go away from this house lah, what gives you the right to throw tandrum here?" she screamed!!! and now im silenced....sighhss..i really wanna cry over these hurtful words. and of cos i did right now. if u really don't welcome me why on earth in the first place bring me here? i know why. yes. i know why. for my own good. and perhaps i know these are words of anger. in the fit of anger words right? {qi hua} but they were being said already. you can't take it back easily. im already wounded. and that will need some time for me to recover. though i can forgive and forget easily. but things like that it's harder though it happened many times. i wondered how i could continue my life like that.....i must say that this is the worst hurtful words i come across so far from her mouth. im still not numbed to it yet. oh please, im not a natural-borned thick-skinned person. but though im more thick-skinned now then b4. i have my own feelings too. Why am i having all these troubles now!?!?!!? why why!?!?!? what a life for this period? im facing some downs of my life......they are so hurtful for me to take.......................but i have got to take them....oh please....lots of things happened..it comes and goes. and i have to accept these reality. Problems after problems. the used-to-be -no-problem family is flooded with problems and which affected me. perhaps im too ignorant in the past, so now these small little things made such impacts on my life. yes. that might be the lessons i should learn. alrites, i need a break. i don wanna keep tearing like that day. until my eyes almost popped out. and i realised something, i teared last wednesday. exactly 1 week. and which affects my day in school and volleyball performance last few days..and now i don't wanna reapeat that.:(( i beg to heaven not to be so cruel to me please. :((

// the peaceful night sky

- leave me alone.. i want some peace.. -

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Sunday, August 14, 2005 @ 8/14/2005 05:50:00 PM

feel like breaking away '__'

// the peaceful night sky

- leave me alone.. i want some peace.. -

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Thursday, August 11, 2005 @ 8/11/2005 12:03:00 AM

*t....e....a....r.....i....n....g* bwhaaaahhh....!!!! I HATEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE you!!!!! i hAte yOu i hate you!!! stupid!!!stupid stupid!! full of Rubbish!! SHARKS!!!! Arrrrgggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!! the words hurt me deep inside....i wanna tear till i bleed....youu are sooo petty and yesh i am petty as well...I feel so pain......in my heart...........I wANt to throw my temper!!! and i know if i do, you sure would do the same....but who cares anyway!! im not gonna talk to you...!!! AARRGGHH!!! i wanna throw stuffs and i wanna bang on stuffs!!! I wanna mess up things!!!! I felt so hurt..please helpppp meeee....my tears seem to have never stopped flowing ever since the words are being thrown to me....and im always thinking about it makesss me....................*speechless*...i felt im being wRonged.....but maybe im really wrong too..but anyway, no use explaining...........im in deep shit...............I hate you to the core!!!!! I thought you were soooo good....but im wrong................beast beast!!!!bastard!!! I guess i'll never stop tearing till tml...i felt like rebelling....im so hurt...thanks to you huh..and yea...you thanked me too...so we are equally thankful yea?!?! great speech you made...I THANK you too!! FINE!!! go ahead with what you wanna say....im fine with..FINE...sure....continue until you are happy...yea..do it!!im not gonna let myself down cos of you!! i can survive on my own...anyway....im so pissed off...felt really better to SHOOT everything here...i guess i dun want to explain stuffs to anybody yet too...cos im not in a great state now...let me be me for now....all i ask is some space for me to THROW tandrum right now....okie..anyway... i beg to privaticise whom im mentioning..so do not ask me....

// the peaceful night sky

- leave me alone.. i want some peace.. -

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Wednesday, August 10, 2005 @ 8/10/2005 05:08:00 PM

Happy 40th National Day Singapore[2005]

// the peaceful night sky

Alrites..time to blog..long time have yet to update. First of all, It's 45 mins after NATIONAL DAY now....HaPPY 40th Birthday Singapore!!! though im not a Singaporean, but yeah! i enjoyed the celebration and the atmosphere like my own country...haha.. well...im just back from Marina South eating Steamboat and seeing the fireworks with sistas, and as well as some of the RPvolleyballers. It was such a concidental that the RP volleyballers like Gary, Vincente, HongChuan, Yenkai and the year ones gals wanna go there too. so we decided to meet up there. but in the end we did not get to sit together, it was wasted though. haha..i tot i could 'played' with both sides....hahaha..!!the more the merrier mah...but too bad le...hehe....hmms...had such a 'bao' dinner...we went there since 5 plus, and ate until 8plus. wahhh!!! sistas damn "pro"! big eaters...hmmms...to them im a small eater, to Rpvball gals, Im a big eater just like Jasminte! wahaha....wOw!! the fireworks nice..the atmosphere was great! hahaha...though it was so crowded. After the Parade was over we went into the concert area and listened to some singers like those from m'sia, indonesia, taiwan lah...or don't know whoever lah..put up some performance bahx...wahh piang!! some of them were so ROCKed that my whole BODY is vibrating, HEART is also vibrating, and even my HAIRS on my arms are vibrating!!! it was so shaKyyyy...oh manz....scaryyy...! haha...well...some of them are really good singers...and yeah..this is my first time seeing the superstars of singapore performing cos i dun really care all about these...hmms...can say not so bad bahx...and then nearing the finale, alot of ppl were leaving already, and we sistas still there being 'high' singing along and supporting the taiwan singer...and danced along..alamak....what a scene manz...im so paiseh yet i felt tempted to do so too. haha..but im yet to warm up...maybe i seldom go to concert that's why paiseh to cheer...hahaha....felt like going KTV sing and dance manz...hehe...it was rather fun! and by the time we left there it was already 10.50pm....and walked all the way to MRT station...what a long way lor...phewwwssss....and now we finally reached home...so tired but fun! though i didn't get to go in with crowds of my volleyball gang..simply missed them too..hehe...oh well....that's the way life is for today.... oh.....have been busy lately......with volleyball stuffs and so on....i think this whole week plus next week too....ever since last saturday till tuesday...had been busy with vball manz....

Saturday vball match(3pm)
Sunday vball match(11.15am)
Monday training (back home late)
Tuesday(today) with NDP (back home late)
Tml (wed) FREE!!! stay home and spend time with family or study lor...since sis complaining 'bout my busy life
Thursday vball training (back home late)
Friday vball match(back home late)
Saturday go elaine's house stay overnight cos next morning got match at Tampines
Sunday match(8am) and den peishan's bday party i guess.
Monday Training(back home late)
Tuesday go out(maybe-back home late)

the rest back to normal already. but have to get back to study for UTs already lo!! Last 4 tests for the semester. [back home late means almost 12am reach home leh...scary leh....sighss..]

wahhh!!! i felt really packed for this period manz....better not make my sis angry ah...hmms...so that's why tml(wed) stay home and guai guai study and do housework!!!wahahaha!!!

alrites...im off here lo.....cannot sleep so late..later tml(wed) cannot wake up...den sure got "niam niam" again...1.17am already lo....goodnightsss my bloggy kizziess....hehehe..

// the peaceful night sky

- leave me alone.. i want some peace.. -

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*staying happy-go-lucky
*freedom
*get into a Uni
*PR
*good paying job
*a new hair-do/image
*changes of contents in my wardrobe
*new sets of shoes/cosmetics
*perfumes
*skin care products
*being a teacher/engineering assist/SUCCESSFUL career woman
*independence
*CAR LISENSE

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You are Sneakers!

You're an active girl, who's all about function You dress for the occasion - comfort comes first Your perfect guy? Someone who can keep up with you. You'll find him - but you might have to slow down to see him!

What Kind Of Women's Shoe Are You?

FEBRUARY attitude!

FEBRUARY

Abstract thoughts
Loves reality and abstract
Intelligent and clever
Changing personality
Temperamental
Quiet, shy and humble
Low self esteem
Honest and loyal
Determined to reach goals
Loves freedom
Rebellious when restricted
Loves aggressiveness
Too sensitive and easily hurt
Showing anger easily
Dislike unnecessary things
Loves making friends but rarely shows it
Daring and stubborn
Ambitious
Realizing dreams and hopes
Sharp
Loves entertainment and leisure
Romantic on the inside not outside
Superstitious and ludicrous
Spendthrift
Learns to show emotions

Phanthipha, your true color is Green!

You're green, the color of growth and vigor. Good-hearted and giving, you have a knack for finding and bringing out the best in people. Green is the most down-to-earth color in the spectrum — reliable and trustworthy. People know they can count on you to be around in times of need, since your concern for people is genuine and sincere. You take pride in being a good friend. For you, success is measured in terms of personal achievement and growth, not by status or position. Rare as emeralds, greens are wonderful, natural people. It truly is your color!

Phanthipha, your passion is Bashful Blush!

Yours is a passion driven from the inside — not the outside. Some may misinterpret that to mean you're more timid than others when it comes to love, school, and life in general. But really, we suspect it's just that you focus more on driving toward your goals than announcing them to the world. While some people have to stand at a podium to stake their territorial claims — on guys, teams, or the honor roll — you're more likely to take a less direct route. (After all, it's easier to make your point when you're not caught like a deer in the spotlight.) A level-headed discussion with someone close to your issue, if not the person directly, is more your style — whether feeling out if your crush is already taken or asking your parents for a much-deserved raise in allowance. Your careful approach usually pans out better than creating a dramatic scene before a gawking audience. Sure, you go after what you want in life. But your style has never been to grab the bull by the horns. The patience you've cultivated has no doubt helped you become who you are today — a devoted friend, daughter, girlfriend, or student. So keep at it — picking your private battles. Then stand back to watch your bashful blush work its passionate magic!

What Kind of Girlfriend Are You?

Phanthipha, you're a Steady Supporter Stand by your man — that's just something you naturally do. Once you've committed to a relationship, you are a constant companion who enjoys the comfort and stability that comes from being a couple. Not quick to judge, accuse, or think the worst, you have a lot of trust (in him and in yourself), and you rarely worry about where he is or who he's with. For you, mutual respect is of utmost importance. You are comfortable and confident in your own skin, making you a great pillar of strength in all your relationships. Whether he's striving to climb a mountain or land a promotion, you have his back. Best part is, you know he's got yours too.

Career Interest Inventory

Phanthipha, based on your responses, your top career area is Education and Training
Careers in this field often demand that you have an idealistic mindset. Whether it's teaching new information, skills, or behavior, you need to have a zeal for interacting with others and being in charge. Most likely it's important for you to know that your patience and communication skills can have a lasting impact on the lives of others.

What Does Your Style Says About You?

Phanthipha, your style says you're Sporty and Fun No matter which team you get a kick out of the most — soccer, softball, track, basketball, or cheerleading — you've got a love for games and staying active. Clothes and fashion are important to you, but for a team player like you, it's about more than just looks. You want to be comfortable and prepared for anything that might come your way. Whether you're more of an athlete or a fan, you like what sports can do for people — overcome challenges, learn something new, push themselves. Your cool style says that you're always up for a new game. And that'll always score you points!

Which Emoticon Are You?

Phanthipha, the emoticon that represents you best is the Smiling Face What's up, smiley? Somehow you just always seem to find a way to turn that frown upside down. Your upbeat attitude and friendly demeanor brighten up any room, including your favorite chat room. Like your classic emoticon counterpart, you're a staple on anyone's list. Boring days and sleepless nights are far more bearable when you're online to chat. Whether you're shooting the breeze, catching up, or giving out advice, you can cheer up anyone on the other side of the conversation. So keep lightening the mood, making new friends, and bringing smiles to other folks' faces. After all, it's just so natural for you!

What Kind of Cool Are You?

Phanthipha, you're Calm, Cool, and Collected Do your friends like to lean on your shoulder? Ask you for advice in life and love? Put you on speed-dial for emergencies? We bet they do. You're as balanced as they come. When it comes to making decisions, you're not afraid to take the time to weigh your options carefully in order to make the right choice. And it takes more than a few obstacles to rattle your cool head. The good news is that you've also got lots of heart, and you make sure that people know that you always have their backs. There's almost nothing more important to you than the people in your life, so being a support to them is the coolest thing around. Just like you.

Heart-Strong Idealist

Phanthipha, you follow your heart when it comes to success You're an impassioned individual who just can't suppress your ideals. You've got a strong sense of right and wrong, and want to let people know when they've crossed the line. Sure, there are times when you sit back to hear both sides of an argument. But people had better stay out of the way when your fiery passions take hold. But just because you can be a bit of a rebel with a cause, it doesn't mean you're incapable of being understanding and compassionate. It's because you're so invested in your ideas and interests that you can work so tirelessly toward your goals and speak up for what you believe in. So keep pouring your heart into it. With conviction like yours, you're sure to succeed!

What Breed of Dog are You?

Phanthipha, you're a Chihuahua! No bones about it, you're an energetic, devoted Chihuahua. For your breed, size definitely doesn't matter. After all, sometimes the best things (diamonds, car keys, Godiva truffles) come in small packages. Honest and straightforward, you're never afraid to speak up for what you believe in, especially if it's a cause near and dear to your heart. Having such a passionate personality can come with a few drawbacks, though. You can be moody at times, and people often find it hard to live up to your high standards. But once you make a friend, it's for life. Saucy and intense, your energy and unfailing loyalty make you a great companion. Woof!

Are You a Natural Leader?

Congratulations, you're a real leader! Your leadership skills are quite strong, so don't be afraid to step up to the plate when problems need solving — you'll do great. You've got a solid combination of positive leadership traits — from organizational skills to communication ability. These talents make you a great resource in the workplace, someone people can look to for guidance and direction. Still, there are a few things you might need to work on. To brush up on the different components of leadership, check out your scores below:

You Gender Identity

Phanthipha, you're 59% masculine
This is based on how you scored on a variety of traits that, founded on classic research and our own studies, are typically associated with men. You're also 41% feminine, which is based on how you scored on traits that are typically associated with women. When we compare your results with other women it shows that you are somewhat more masculine than other women. But what is gender identity exactly? A person's gender identity is defined by the extent to which they see themselves as masculine or feminine. Every person possesses both masculine and feminine qualities to some degree, however the extent to which each person has these qualities differs widely. While you were taking the test, we calculated your scores in 6 areas typically defined as masculine and 6 areas typically defined as feminine.

Who's the man of your dreams?

Phanthipha, The Boy Next Door is the man of your dreams The guy next door can be a lot more than the kid who played a great game of tag and buried you in snowballs. He can be the man of your dreams. A laidback and fun girl like you doesn't need a glass slipper or fancy jewels — you just want a guy who knows how to have a good time and has a handle on what's important. You're the kind of girl who wants to marry her best friend, so you might not have to look far for the perfect guy for you. Whoever said you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find your prince wasn't talking about you. Tag — you're it!

Class IQ test

Congratulations, Phanthipha!
Your IQ score is 129
This number is based on a scientific formula that compares how many questions you answered correctly on the Classic IQ Test relative to others. Your Intellectual Type is Visual Mathematician. This means you are gifted at spotting patterns — both in pictures and in numbers. These talents combined with your overall high intelligence make you good at understanding the big picture, which is why people trust your instincts and turn to you for direction — especially in the workplace. And that's just some of what we know about you from your test results.

What hairstyle matches you?

Phanthipha, your hairstyle should be Flirty From cute curls to a fun flip, your hairstyle should show off the fact that you know how to strike the perfect balance between sassy and sweet. With your charisma and outgoing personality, you're sure to light up any room. From parties to workdays to lazy Sundays, your style always radiates your fun-loving charm. With your natural knack for wooing and your willingness to go out on a limb for what you want, it's no surprise that your style is sure to shine. So whether your hairstyle is lusciously long or coifed into the perfect pixie, we bet you turn heads wherever you go. Way to wow them!

What gets you whipped?

Phanthipha, you're whipped because he's Sweet Nice guys finish last? Not a chance if they meet a sweetie like you. There's not a thing in the world you wouldn't do for loved ones, and you wanna make sure you find a guy who's got his priorities straight too. Whether he's a bull-rider or a businessman, he'd better have a big heart. When you fall, you fall hard. And it's the little things that matter like when he opens the door for you, cooks you dinner, or leaves sweet notes in your pocket. Brains and brawn are fine and dandy, but he won't win your heart if he isn't in touch with his sensitive side. Awwww, how sweet!

What Type Are You?

You are a Hopeless romantic
Do you swoon when a guy recites poetry to you? Go ga-ga over a bouquet of hand-picked wildflowers? Then there's no doubt about it — you're a textbook Hopeless Romantic. Chances are you love soft music, candlelight, and long walks on the beach at sunset. Crying at sappy movies (your favorite kind) is a given — a box of tissues is a must — and you've have had your wedding planned since grade school. You're looking for a deep relationship — a soulmate. Traditional and sympathetic, guys love that they can open up to you and talk to you about their feelings, their past, and their hopes for the future. How can a suitor win your heart? By romancing you. Sending you flowers, surprising you with a picnic lunch, or going for a horse-drawn carriage ride. Before you know it, you'll be creating a life-long love story.

Pisces Personality

Like its symbol of two fish swimming in opposite directions, Pisceans are always torn between choices whether to seek the light or sink into the darkness. Being well liked for their kind and sympathetic nature, their charm of manner and carefree nature will impress many. You are compassionate, and unless pushed to the wall, will rarely hurt anyone. A Piscean can be very caustic but the sarcasm is not always direct and generally goes unnoticed. However, this can land you in a spot every once in a while. You find it difficult to conform and follow rules or to cope with discipline. When the going gets really rough, the Piscean may try to flee down river and hide amongst the vast schools of fish swimming lazily around. The very weak-willed among you are likely to indulge in alcohol and drugs to escape. Alternatively, you might be able to pour out your emotions in creative arts. You put your emotions in poetry or short verse but seldom open up to those around you on a personal basis. Although you might be impractical and somewhat uneasy with the real world, you are brave and prefer a lot of independence. Pisceans like to delve in spiritual matters and lots of you are fascinated by the occult. Maybe because many fish are psychic or their dreams can be strange and portential. Remember one thing: you are the culmination of all that has gone before, whilst Aries is the birth of the zodiac, Pisces the twelfth sign is death and eternity, you are the distillation of all the other signs.

Pisces Lover

In the world of romance, you crave fairytales, being more in love with the idea of love than being in love itself. Though you are strongly attracted to good looks, your attention will completely fizzle out if your partner is not intelligent; you may just simply lose interest once you have been able to "secure" the object of your desire. For some, the pursuit is sometimes more fun than the end result. Those born under Scorpio, Cancer, and Pisces make ideal partners for Pisces. Pisceans can be unnecessarily suspicious and jealous, and this might cause a lot of heartache. Although you will expect a perfect marriage, your unpredictable moods will be the reason for some tension at times. The most important ingredient you bring to a relationship is love. You are gentle, sensitive, and a romantic through and through, valuing fidelity in a marriage and will be kind and affectionate to your spouse and children. Though you let your partner take on a dominant role in public, you like to rule at home. As you long for love, it is essential that you establish a loving relationship with your family.

Pisces Professional

Pisceans will do well in performing arts, especially the theatre. In science, Pisceans tend to work in the fields of either physics or medicine. They will also do well in ocean-based occupations or working with animals. Pisceans normally have talents that will get them money and fame. The streak of independence in you rarely allows you to be dependent on others. You will be ready to help the needy, having no consideration for a rainy day, even if you are not sure that it will be returned. You hate to chase money owed, hoping that it will be returned voluntarily. You are often distracted when bored, which tends to affect your work adversely. You need to be focused and inspired to give your best.

Pisces Traveller

You love water and would head straight for some beach resort. Perhaps scuba diving and water skiing on holiday is your dream holiday; though splashing around on the beach is your idea of fun too. You are generally very emotional and romantic so would love to holiday with your partner.

Pisces Well Being

Pisces people have slow metabolisms, which is why they wake up sleepy eyed and listless, poor eating habits can bring troubles so try to set regimes and stick to them, Pisceans lungs are not strong, they can be a bit asthematic and are also prone to colds and flu bugs. Those of you living in cold climates should take adequate protection against the cold (keep your head, hands and neck covered). Those living in warmer climes should take special care of personal hygiene. Most of you are less than average in height, with large or small hands, big feet or little feet there are generaly no in betweens. You have a tendency to put on weight, unless you make special efforts to fight it off. A double chin is common among Pisceans and a good number among you have large eyes and a wide mouth. Ankles and feet are the vulnerable areas of Pisceans. Some also suffer from liver and digestive afflictions and varicose veins. Painting, listening to music, reading and dance can help calm your nerves. Swimming is a good form of exercise as well as relaxation for you. Pisceans are often good at martial arts as they have the necessary inner strength, try some Tai Chi first thing in the morning to put life in perspective for the rest of the day.

Pisces Luck

Warm colours like red, yellow and orange are lucky for Pisces. Your lucky stone is amethyst, whereas Sunday, Tuesday and Thursday are favorable days. Wednesday and Friday do not prove to be good for people under this zodiac sign. Neptune is your ruler and your element is water (WATER Water people are never petty. They are clever and plan well ahead. But they often tend to be timid. The element Water is represented by blue or black. Water shapes include gentle undulations like waves in a river. A water house has numerous bays, and like the ebb and flow of water, experiences regular change in fortunes)

Pisces Teens

The best shoulder to cry on -- that's the Pisces girl for you. Compassion and sympathy are the hallmarks of this girl and don't be surprised if she ends up in the profession of social welfare. Since much of her time will be taken up relieving others' worries, she will hardly find time to pamper her personal self. Comfortable in second-hand clothes, she'll be happy in whatever makes her feel comfortable. The Pisces lass has a dreamy disposition and loses track when she wanders. She is invariably late for appointments. The best institution suited for her will be, preferably, a small liberal arts college. Always willing to help a friend, the inner beauty of a Pisces lady lies in her creativity and powers of empathy. Kind and compassionate, a Piscean lad generally goes out of his way to help others. He never intentionally hurt others and seeks to avoid confrontation at all costs. He spends much of his time in the cocoon of his private dream world. He is absent minded at times. He sees the world through rose tinted glasses, he walks around with his head in the clouds. He is generally a loner and often has to be drawn into the company of friends. By and large, he is very selective about his friends. He often lacks in determination and this may account for his not realising his potential. He is an impressionable person who could get into wrong company that might have potentially disastrous consequences. If he can be motivated to work hard, there is very little he cannot achieve.